Sunday, January 18, 2009

Sunday Morning!! What a difference a night makes!! Jay had a good night. Slept peacefully. Pneumonia is better. All vital signs and monitor readings exactly where we want them to be. Better living through chemistry! Jay is being weaned off many of these medications as his own system takes over these vital chemical balances and functions.

He's aware, oriented, speaking, and more restful. The doctors say he needs rest to get this brain injury healed. He's still keeps asking for a shower, to get out of bed, for water, Sprite and grapes. Unfortunately none of those small pleasures are in the cards for today. No liquids until the pneumonia is cleared up and they do swallow studies to make sure we're ready for liquids and then food.

The great news is that he's making progress. The doctors are really pleased and say we'll see more progress everyday. Today I finally feel more relaxed and greatly relieved, but because patience is a virtue I have very little of, my mind rushes off into the future. When can we get back to our lives? Soon I hope.

Dawn

6 comments:

  1. Our family thinks of the Helmans often and continue to pray for a quick and full recovery. We love and appreciate our interactions over the years and look forward to more to come.

    We enjoy hearing that Jay continues to have his sense of humor and his sense of appreciation for those around him...even when it's not comfortable.

    We look forward to reading about his progress.

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  2. Hello Helmans,

    I'm so glad to hear of Jay's progress, as is much of the GVH EMS and ER staff. Thank you for setting up the blog, it's wonderful to hear how everything is going.

    I am thankful everyday that, as scary as this has been for you all, everything is starting to look up. Although it will be a process, and not without both trials and tribulations, the healing is beginning. It's also amazing, and quite the blessing, that both Jay's speech and cognition have not been disrupted.

    I wish you all the ability to get some rest and recover from this crazy week. There were a few of us who were thinking of coming down to visit, once I'm out of knee surgery on Tuesday I'll know if it's feasable or not (as I might not be able to drive for a month!). Take care Jay, Dawn, and Dev... we think of you all often here in Gunny.

    Britt

    PS- is there an address where we can send cards to Jay? Some of the nurses at GVH were wondering...

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  3. We sit by the computer checking for updates often and are so happy to hear so much good news! We can't wait until Jay is back.

    We are thinking of you all as we are very concerned about Jay but also D and D. Your support means more than you know for him.

    Maybe he will be well enough to watch/listen to some of the inauguration Tuesday!

    Anne, Jarral, Lila, and Julian Ryter

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  4. What good news! I think about all three of you and hold you and good health for you in my heart. If you need anything - I mean ANYTHING - I will do what I can. Dawn, if you need company in SLC, let me know.

    carol primus

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  5. Hi Helman Family,
    You have all been in my prayers continuously and I do mean continuously this whole last week. I wake up thinking about Jay and am actually angry that bad things happen to good people altho I know all the philosophical theories - but- sometimes philosophy just doesn't cut it when you are hurting so much. Anyway, so glad you are making progress and I know you have great doctors, but I am sure it is at least inpart due to the fact that so many people love and respect you Jay. We are all praying and shaking our fists in the air and sending positive energy to you all. So keep your chins up and know that there will be a better day for all of you. You do have a village!!
    Much love,

    Nancy Tredway

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  6. Dear Jay, Dawn, and Devanie,

    We wish Jay a speedy and full recovery. Our prayers are with all of you everyday. Jay, hope you have TV are getting to watch some basketball games!

    We miss you!
    Nancy and Pete Gauss

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