We are so blessed and I have been witness to a true miracle. I feel sad and even a little guilty when I see others who have not had a recovery like Jay's, or those who will not walk again. Today in PT when they were challenging Jay by having him walk outside on different surfaces, (rocks, grass, hills) I was so grateful that we will still be able to hike together. When a loved one is devastated by a stroke, and is working on recovery, the fear and the grief of what might not come back and what might be lost forever is a constant.
We have video clips of Jay taken by one of his physical therapists as he struggled to relearn to walk and regain his motor abilities. You would have to see these clips to understand the enormity of his recovery. He has come so far, it is miraculous.
When we're not working with the physical therapists we still use a wheelchair to cruise around because we don't want to get too cocky, but Jay will come home on his feet. He has regained the strength and dexterity of his left hand and arm, which was so important to him.
The University of Utah Hospital has 2 outpatient rehab clinics. This week (post surgery) we continued to go to the one we attended as an inpatient at University Hospital. It's been wonderful to see our friends, the doctors, therapists, and other patients. It's been great for them to see Jay with his bone in place, and to celebrate his amazing progress. Jay does not take credit for his recovery. We know this miracle is a result of the gifted surgeons, the talented rehab staff, the incredible therapists, the doctors who offered us friendship, and the prayers, love, and support of all of you.
Next week we begin outpatient therapy at University Hospital's community based clinic. We'll have intensive 5 day a week therapy, which will be more related to transition back to work and community. Jay has been heroic on this journey, and has gained much from this challenge. You've heard the terms, "a stroke of genius, a stroke of insight, a stroke of luck." To have a stroke is to experience a lightning bolt of awareness or transformation. It truly can be a blessing.
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Jay and Dawn,
ReplyDeleteI have been following your posts while on travel but unable to reply from my government Blackberry.
These have been wonderfully encouraging reports. More than you know, actually.
I have never been confused about Jay's courage and capacity for sheer hard work. It is a blessing and inspiration to see those qualities rewarded under the most difficult of circumstances. We see, as well, the thread of the miraculous woven through this experience, and are rejoicing with you.
Stay the course. Fortune favors boldness.
All the best,
Cliff and Debi
Dawn,
ReplyDeleteJust as Jay's recovery is miraculous, so is the strength and sheer tenacity of your loving support. As I've read your words these many days, I've imagined you taking every step with Jay, living his struggles and successes as intensely as he has. I know the next time I face adversity, your face and words will guide me and bring me hope. Thank you for that gift, my dear friend.
Love, Donna